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Introduction to DBT Therapy
The last few years have seen a shift towards therapies that promote emotional equilibrium and self-awareness. One of the most influential and effective is DBT therapy, which stands for Dialectical Behavior Therapy. Initially created for people diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, DBT is now used to treat a myriad of emotional and behavioral issues including anxiety, depression, trauma, and self-harming behaviors.
The hallmark of DBT is that it is the only therapy that works with both sides of the spectrum: acceptance and change. It helps people calmly accept their emotions while developing effective ways to gain control over them. This leads to personal development, growth in their emotional health, and the ability to maintain relationships that are more balanced and stable.
DBT incorporates Mindfulness, emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance. These are the core skills that assist in emotional well-being. With the combination of these principles, one gains the ability to cope with painful feelings and facilitate emotional healing that is more permanent.
The Core Principles of Dialectical Behavior Therapy
The basic building block of DBT therapy is dialectics—the idea that two opposite things can both be true. Clients are taught to accept themselves fully and to work for positive change at the same time. This perspective is vital in breaking the black-and-white thinking that causes emotional distress.
The therapy structure is another key element of DBT. Treatment comprises individual therapy, group skills training, and phone coaching. This is vital to ensure that clients receive guidance both during their sessions and in the time in between, as each of these forms of therapy addresses different parts of the recovery process.
Collaboration from DBT therapists is different as they work with the client instead of the typical therapist-client hierarchy. They value the client’s experience while diagnosing issues to work on. Engagement and trust are vital in long-term progress and are both built in this process.
In DBT therapy, the focus on progress is not on perfection. It is the improvement of emotional distress and coping skills that matters. At the center of DBT therapy is the principle of building a life that is worth living.
Mindfulness as a Foundation in DBT
With mindfulness as one of DBT therapy‘s four primary pillars, all the other components align around it. Drawing from Buddhist tradition blended with aspects of contemporary psychology, mindfulness is the practice of living in the moment without judgment.
For many clients, this practice as therapy is revolutionary. Trauma, anxiety, and depression may pull people into a cycle of anguish over the past and the future. Regret and worry may trap people. Mindfulness interrupts this cycle of anguish and pulls mindfulness clients from the past and future and into the present. After consistent practice, people learn to dispassionately observe their thoughts and emotions without being controlled by them.
During DBT therapy, clients may practice mindfulness exercises of focused breathing, body scans, or other simple techniques of sensory awareness. These methods provide a means for clients to slow down and control their reactive impulsivity. Mindfulness, over time, enhances emotional resilience, and fosters a state of calm in the presence of a distressing situation.
Mindfulness as therapy is not aimed at the removal of negative emotions. It is the compassionate acknowledgement of the emotions. Clients learn to dispassionately observe their emotions and create a thoughtful decision to counter the emotion, establishing emotional stability.
Emotional Regulation Techniques
Emotional regulation is another fundamental area of focus when it comes to DBT therapy. For those with mental health issues, emotions can sometimes feel inescapable, overwhelming, uncontrollable, and unpredictable. DBT can offer a more effective, methodical and organized way to manage, understand and even identify those emotions.
Therapists work with clients on identifying their triggers and their patterns of response. Once clients can identify what distressing emotions are and what causes them, interventions can then begin to stop the emotions from spiraling out of control. This most often involves self-soothing, positively reinforcing coping methods with the goal of increasing the experience and reducing emotional vulnerability.
Valuable emotional regulation in DBT teaches clients that emotions, even the most extreme, intense and overwhelming ones, can be coped with and managed without turning to harmful, ineffective and avoidant coping. Also, emotions should be dealt with and not avoided entirely or even replaced by harmful coping mechanisms.
As clients learn more DBT skills, they learn to balance emotion and logic—emotionally responding to problems with more control, awareness, and confidence. This balance ensures all-round relationship improvement and even emotional and mental stability.
Interpersonal Effectiveness Skills
There is no denying that healthy relationships are important to a person’s overall emotional health. Unfortunately, a lot of people find communicating their wants and needs without fear or conflict is a challenge. In DBT therapy, Interpersonal Effectiveness focuses on this concern by helping individuals develop basic skills in communication, assertiveness, and the setting of boundaries.
Clients learn to communicate while listening and respecting the views of others. DBT teaches one the importance of attaining an objective while maintaining a relationship and one’s self-respect. Individuals learn to confidently ask for their needs and unapologetically say “no” to anxiety and other overwhelming feelings.
Clients learn to identify unhealthy, one-sided relationships and the self-worth needed to walk away in DBT therapy and Interpersonal Effectiveness. These clients are depicted to receive relationships that are positive, mutual, and fostering, rather than an anchoring in the negative.
In every area of their life, people can find positive transformations, as a result of their new communication skills. These transformations can be seen in friendships, family relationships, work, romantic attachments, and overall relational health.
The Role of Distress Tolerance in DBT
There will always be painful, difficult moments in life no matter how well a person practices mindfulness or emotional regulation. Distress tolerance are the skills in DBT that help prevent a crisis from becoming worse.
This module promotes acceptance of reality as it is, especially when there’s no immediate possibility of change. Instead of acting out when uncomfortable, clients are taught ways to be patient to tolerate discussed levels of discomfort. Self-soothing, grounding, and distraction techniques provide relief in moments of overwhelming distress.
In DBT therapy, “radical acceptance” is a core principle, and it means completely acknowledging a reality and a situation that is beyond control. Instead of resisting or denying painful situations, a person must face it and accept it. It is important to understand that it is not about approving of suffering, but it is about moving on and not getting stuck.
Increased levels of distress tolerance helps clients become stronger and helps them face the ups and downs that life will bring. These skills will eventually provide clients with a greater sense of control and emotional stability.
Real-Life Applications and Success Stories
The real-world applications for DBT therapy are endless and it has proven effectiveness. Initially, DBT was meant for chronically emotionally unstable people with suicidal ideation, but it has for the last 2 decades been adapted for conditions that include suffering from trauma, substance use disorder, eating disorder, and depression.
Many people declare their experience with Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) as life-changing. They feel in charge of their emotions, more focused in the moment, and able to build and sustain emotionally healthy connections with others. The skills clients learn in DBT become life-long instruments to be utilized long after the end of the treatment.
For instance, clients who used to become angry or emotionally withdrawn when confronted with stress may learn to take a moment, evaluate the stressor, and make a reasoned response. Likewise, emotionally avoidant clients may learn to close the gap on a feeling and attend to it with mindful compassion. The little things often morphed into big things with time.
Research on the effectiveness of DBT continues to show a reduction in emotional pain, healthy social interactions, and improvement in quality of life overall. The combination of empathy and evidence backed techniques is what makes DBT effective in therapy.
Conclusion
DBT therapy focuses on balanced progress. It is a compassionate approach, where clients learn the skills to accept change, and alter their emotions without feeling to remove them, and engage in life fully. After completing DBT therapy, clients have the ability to approach complex situations with increased focus and boldness, and with more clarity than before.
People who follow through with this type of therapy tend to realize that DBT works on alleviating symptoms while also building resilience, purpose, and peace of mind. The changes that occur are profound, and the shift in one’s emotional being is accompanied by a more refined sense of personal identity and direction.
At Pacific Coast Mental Health, each DBT program is customized to meet one’s unique needs with compassion and professionalism. The staff combines skills and techniques that are proven to be effective, along with gentle and understanding encouragement, to help each individual recipient of their services along the healing process, bringing balance to their inner self, and developing a life that is rich in mindfulness and self-acceptance.
